The International Divorce Recovery Coach,
Marriage and Parenting Educator and Children of Divorce Specialist
Today you are in “Divorce Country” you never planned to be here but you are. It’s a strange place with different rules, regulations and road signs. You want it all to change and go away but you don’t know how.
Intranzition coaching will offer you a compassionate, scientifically based and practical approach to help you grow from your experience and thrive. You can either let the difficult situation define who you are, or you can use it as an opportunity to make real changes in your life….These positive changes that will leave you stronger and happier than ever before!
Why our Programme is Unique?
It actually works!!
Limited to a specific time frame (instead of ongoing)
Focused on results
Focused on the future (not the past)
Based on Positive Psychology and Change Resistant
Growing through divorce is based on a Fundamental Principle that divorce is a transition. The essence of transition is “moving on” to something new in the future. We believe our divorce coaching mission facilitates a fast and smooth transition from your past life of how your life used to be before the divorce to your next life of thriving in your new life circumstances. We will help you to grow through divorce rather than go through divorce.
Divorce ends a marriage it does not end a family. Your children are not a percentage. Your children will always need two loving parents. Right now, they need two parents who are able to cooperate in raising them. Whether you are getting along with your ex (or not) I can help you.
My Mindful co-parenting workshop is full of tools and new strategies that support you and your children before, during and after you separate or divorce.
Coaching Children of Divorce
Divorce is never easy for kids. When parents divorce, children often experience confusion, sadness and anger. These emotions can overwhelm kids and get in the way of their social and emotional wellbeing.
I will help your kids to deal with the negative impact of divorce. I will help them to identify their feelings, cope with stress and other complex emotions. I will hold their hand to make sure they will feel safe and secure during the divorce process.
Positive Parenting Coaching
You are or becoming a single parent .You may face challenges of doing alone a job that was meant for two people. In addition you might have self-doubt and guilt that may dampen the joy you experience raising your kids.
The new journey coaching is focused on positive discipline for single parents; you will learn how to succeed as a single parent in the most important job of your life. You will raise a child who is responsible, respectful and resourceful.
Divorce Support Group
Angry! Dazed! Bitter! Empty! Cheated! Rejected!
These, along with an assortment of other feelings, probably describe how you feel now. When one is experiencing feelings of grief and loss during and after divorce, we need the support and compassion of our fellow human beings.
Join me on “Beyond Your Divorce” support group. It includes 12 meetings in East Barnet, North London.
Emerge from the wilderness and integrate your own divorce into building your new journey by transcending the divorce.
Your marriage began with optimism, happiness and hope. The transition from being married to becoming single again can cause a wide variety of difficult emotions. A terrible thing that somehow always happened to other people has happened to you. There is little preparation for the chaos that you are thrown into both emotionally and physically.
You are not alone……
- 53% of first marriages end in divorce
- 67% of second marriages end in divorce
- 73% of third marriages end in failure
- 60-70% of divorces are initiated by women
- Divorce rates among opposite sex couples was highest among both men and women aged 40 to 44
The painful reality is that without professional coaching you are statistically likely to repeat the same mistakes of the past.
Couples who remarry are full of the same promise and possibility as those who are marrying for the first time.
I utilise the Prepare /Enrich programme that prepares couples for remarriage coaching.
Your divorce coach is exactly what it sounds like...a coach. I am there to guide you through the ups and downs of the divorce process. I am not there to “represent you” in court or in any other official capacity. In other words, the court won’t even know you have a divorce coach. I am an integral part of your divorce team. I provide you with the practical and emotional support during your divorce. The strategies and techniques enable you to navigate and cope with your divorce emotional journey so you can move forward with a positive attitude. You will be able to transition confidently into the next phase of your life.
DIVORCE COACHING IS NOT
- Relationship counselling
- It is not advice on the divorce process, custody battles or financial settlements
- It is not advice on divorce lawyers or the law
INTRANZITION DIVORCE RECOVERY MEANS….
- Feeling better
- Finding a new meaning for living, without the fear of being hurt again
- Being able to enjoy fond memories without having them turn painful
- Acknowledging that it is perfectly all right to feel sad from time to time and to talk about those feelings no matter how those around you react
- Acquiring the skills you should have been taught as a child. These skills allow you to deal with loss directly
Recovering from a significant emotional loss is not an easy task. Taking the actions that lead to recovery will require your attention, open mindedness, willingness, and courage.
PREVENT YOUR RE-MARRIAGE FROM DIVORCE!
Marriage can be the most nourishing and most enduring of human relationship. Ironically, marriage can also be the most disappointing, frustrating and conflicted of human relationship. My re-marriage education programme is designed to help you better understand your marriage and those small changes that are very important in bringing about big change and hope.
INTRANZITION IS THE SOLUTION
Brief solution focused coaching sessions based on Coaching Psychology,
not like the endless sessions on the Counsellor or Marriage Therapist Sofa.
Abeer Bilbeisi is THE international divorce recovery, master coach, marriage and parenting educator children of divorce specialist.
OUR CLIENTS’ PRAISE!
We felt mutually understood, heard, and assisted. We love having very concrete tasks to guide us.
Coach Abeer is one of the most elite and intellectual individuals I know. She is passionate about her purpose, the plan and the end result of the work to be done. Try her out and you will never be disappointed as she is Honest, Focused and Driven to attain results
Abeer facilitated the parenting group over the last year, she has been reliable in her commitment to this group. She is professional and efficient in her approach. For every session she came prepared with a range of activities to suit her varied audience. She is flexible and adaptable and used her coaching skills to ensure that her group were able to share their experiences in a nurturing environment. She strived to ensure that the sessions were informative and that the parents felt empowered to cope with their child’s needs. The Turnaround team were extremely fortunate to have access to Abeer’s skills and knowledge over the last year and we thank her on behalf of our families.
Abeer is a very experienced and versatile facilitator and life coach. She has worked successfully with a wide range of clients and staff groups, all of whom have really enjoyed and benefitted from her input. Whether working 1:1 or with a group her expertise, warmth and humour are always evident and very engaging.
Abeer received very positive feedback from the clients and staff with whom she worked and helped them to move forward and meet their goals.
“With Abeer’s education background and training, considerable divorce expertise and her warmth, openness and empathy, you have one of the best options available to help you through one of the toughest things you’ll ever do.”